我觉得这句话 说得太对了!我的每一次拍拖是付出先, 到最后都死翘翘!一开始,他就说喜欢你啦!又是接你下班,请你吃饭!如果你想做什么,他都说可以,不介意啦!最后到你们开始确立了拍 拖关系后,他就不管你。 你叫他去外面看电影又或者去逛街,HE always say" no " it looks like i was a piggy!it is really damn it !shit !U know! 每一次我都迁就他啦!那我陪你在家里打机啦!但是次次都不让我tough his game!and then i want to cook something. he always say" no, dont touch it !my mon knew that, she doesnt like anyone touch her thing or and her little kitchen!所以每一次我都不太开 心。但是我都没有发脾气。我还是开开心心的面对他。时间 过了长了。我就发现次次都是我迁就他。他从来都没有管过我的感受!我不发信息找他,他从来都不找我。就好像人间蒸发!如果我问他“为什么你不找我?“he always say" u always so busy! u have class and u need to work !i dont want to disturb u" that is a really good excuse!he like to hang out with his friends better than me!he have a lot of atvitives. like, play handball, go to gym, shopping with his parents, visit his brother or friends and play game at home. i only could see him when he really really free. i dont understand where is the problem! 然后,我的年纪也不小了,我问他”你都34 了.你想结婚吗?想要小孩吗?“他 说” 有时想要小孩,有时又不想。如果我想见小孩子的话,我可以见我的nephaw or neice。又说现在很多人都同居啦,其实结婚与不结婚都一样啊!“ 老实说,我真头痛的哦。有时他又很疼我啦。但是有时我又觉得是不是他没拍过拖就是这样的啊!每次像个大孩子那样的。 思想超级单纯!但我又怕自已再老几年,都不知道有没有小孩了!太纠结了!所以我现在就是烦了。不知道我应该不应该再付出。不知道我应该不应该去找另外一个男人!气死我了。所以千万要爱自己多一点,别去付出太多。